人夫朋友

今天跟許久不見的老朋友見面。

雖說是老朋友，不過上一次見面，人家仍是黃金單身漢哪，還跟他一起看電影的。
再次見面，已是已婚身份。
單身時見面跟已婚時見面氛圍還是有差別啊，加上其妻子是老外的時候；聊天一直得儘量加英語以示禮貌讓她明白...

 hmm... 不過看到老朋友找到幸福還是很祝福。

*話說人妻也不過22歲。男人真的愛年輕MM嗎？是比較辣、比較熱血嗎？

封闭

早上舍不得起床，晚上舍不得睡觉...
渐渐爱上夜晚宁静的美好，也渐渐不喜欢融入白天那活力的人群...
越来越封闭了。

不喜欢每个人开口关口就问考试如何，真的... 关你们什么事？
考得怎样？就这样咯，会的就会，不会的就不会... 考过就算了，我怎么知道考得怎样？
不喜欢跟人家讨论严肃的话题，可最近也没在注意什么电影音乐，没什么light topic好聊的。

直到我自己寻找到开心的源头，目前远离人群会是最好的选择...

感谢

如果爱情事业两得意是完美，那当缺一的时候，是什么？

人生快到三十的时候还事业无成，是失败吗？

感谢你让我学业事业无成就的时候，仍感到幸福。

感谢你让我不是一败涂地。

Guys, be a man!

Watched this movie, Something Borrowed couple of days ago:

• Well, Dex and Rachel were study mates in law school and obviously they're fond of each other.
• Somehow down the road came Rachel's happy-go-lucky best friend, Darcy who takes everything easily.
• Due to some misinterpretation, Dex ended up with Darcy and yeah, they're about to get married... and THEN only Dex and Rachel found out that they loved each other all along! 
• =.= Stupid but yeah, that's what norms do due to: shyness, misinterpretation, ego, want-face, blah... 
• So they confessed and had a short affair where Dex, being the guy living to satisfy expectations instead of what he wants (well, just like most of us) don't dare to call off the wedding... Until Rachel decides to give up on him and move on with her life.
• Thank God in the end Dex kinda realized he's gonna missed the love of his life & found his guts to cancel the wedding & be with Rachel.

The whole point here... Is about what guys does.

Just like other  buddy-friend-couple scenario you'll see in young romance movie, the boy is a ladies-man, he's caring, he's gentleman, he's a girl's listener, blah blah... and so a girl fell for him. She confessed, he rejected for who-knows-what reason. Since they're friends, of course they still hang out once in a while. Apparently every time when the girl decides to move on, the boy always gives hope. Once he was drunk and told her, " I shouldn't have rejected you.." and then when he's back in consciousness the second day, it's back to normal and nothing happens... *I feel like fly-kick somebody*

Guys, why can't you just make things simple and clear and let us girls move on with our lives? Is it that hard just to give a confirmed answer and settle the issue? *roll eye* I wonder sometimes how does guys' brain function. Don't complicate it. If you don't like the girl, just tell her! Don't give hope, can?

Thank God she's smart enough to move on without him.

Picture from http://superpaula.tumblr.com

Just like I what I tell my girlfriends, if the guy is such a kiddo that can't give a clear-cut answer, you might as well give up and stop wasting time on him. Who knows he does that with other girls too?

I have a friend whom just met a very charming and cute guy, he told her he likes her, they went out for a sweet night. So what's next? The girl's not sure whether the guy is planning to have further move or just friends. I said just ask and get on. Don't be afraid of scaring the guy off. If he's really such a good guy, he won't be intimidated & he'll talk it out with you. *Heck, don't forget he's the one who asked you out in the first place, k?* 

Btw, guys, girls confess because you're charming, ok? So please stop playing hide-and-seek and say "I don't know"!!! Urgh...




Of course, every one loves to just sit back and relax and best of all, no need to make choices! But that's not the way of life! You won't have your mama to decide everything for you throughout your life! Grow Up!


I once heard, "Guys are MALE by nature, MAN by CHOICE!". So if you wanna be a man, start taking up some responsibility!

Good luck to you girls...

birthday pressie #2

我一向都很喜欢手工笔记本，不过通常这些手工品都不便宜。
今天在教会看到这一款手工书，封面画上劳牧师的小小油画作品，很喜欢。不过由于这些对于我是收藏品所以没买。
结果才过一下子，我就收到我迟来的礼物——一本手工笔记本！ 真的太感谢了！


Got this nice thread sew bind notebook, with Ps Kevin Loo's painting in front as bday pressie!! Luvly. Thanks E1 ~

PIG RABBIT

前幾個月看了韓劇《原來是美男啊》之後，覺得裏面的兔子豬 （돼지 토끼）很是可愛，而由於這韓劇的關係，大馬也有精品店引進這一款娃娃售賣。

想當然，這種日劇韓劇出來的周邊產品自然不會便宜，所以除了感歎它很可愛之外，也不會動腦筋想要買...
不過基於某些原因，男朋友有辦法（比較）“便宜” 買到一隻，所以就買來送我了！oh yeah...

之前男友有象徵性買一個兔子豬的鑰匙圈給我，我以為就告一段落了。沒想到還有額外收穫~ happy \(^0^)/

附上《美男》的主題曲——Jang Geun Suk的  말도 없이 Without Words

终止

当年搬家的时候，是我跟妈妈一起到TM申请住家电话号码。
还记得当年我们还担心电脑random选出来的号码会不会太难记，结果服务人员就帮忙选了一个听了一遍当场就可记住的号码 :)

若干年后，再次搬家了，由于申请Unifi所以另有电话号码了，所以要把旧的电话号码终止。
带着妈妈的身份证复印件和死亡证明，填好表格，等到号码之后就当场立刻终止了这用了近9年的电话号码。
3377**** 再见了。

Pulau Ketam Trip

Although my hometown is Klang, most of my childhood years was spent in Ipoh. Thus I never been to Pulau Ketam though it's just a short hourney from Klang.
Unbelievable but true/

Somehow, Wai & his family decided to make a trip to Pulau Ketam this weekend.
Hotel room was booked, and we're ready to go.

Due to some error, our supposedly morning trip was delayed till afternoon trip, and later became an evening trip.
By the time all of us gathered at the Port Klang Jeti to Pulau Ketam, we're up for the last boat ride: 6.45pm.
The ride cost us RM7/pax.
We can see the sky turning purplish on the way to Pulau Ketam.

• As we reached the Pulau Ketam Jetty, our first destination was to locate our rooms at a less than 5-minutes walk from the jetty - Pulau Ketam Inn.Our room for 6 pax is RM128, reasonable. They have Wi-fi as well. Cool~

•  Dinner time. We thought of going to the main restaurant by the jetty as it was supposedly the most obvious (& probably the most famous?) restaurant. Anyhow, we've decided to ask the receptionist. Instead, she recommended us a "Restaurant Ah Peng"（达旺海鲜餐厅）located on Jalan Dua. It was a small restaurant but the tables were filled as well. We waited for quite some time upon ordering BUT IT WAS ALL WORTH IT~ The crab is JUICY & SWEET! *But later the boss said sorry the crabs today were not the best but they were out of stock.*

Back to the hotel rooms to bath & change, then we took a quick walk browsing around the streets. There's a temple, we shall see tomorrow. Seems like the main shops are all located on Jalan Besar & Jalan Dua. Sweet~ Hope tomorrow's gonna be a satisfying tour. :)

Night all~

回憶

今早一起身就繼續“趕進度”。
每個人一走進我的房間都問我爲什麽那麽多東西？
姐問我：你這些箱子都什麽啊？
我說：我也不知道，應該都是“回憶”~
結果她在那兒大笑。

對啊... 我的書也比我姐少，衣服也不會比我姐多太多，CD... 可能真的多一點，可是.... 其餘的呢？
郵票、照片、信件、書簽~！！ orz...
我的童年真是多彩啊，我當年閑錢貌似也不少...
看來興趣太廣泛也不是件好事...

青春痕迹

近两个星期（我的学校假期啊~ *泡汤了*）的打包、搬运、重新整理...
过程：发觉我的青春真的非常多姿多彩，结果遗留下来的青春痕迹就是一堆留下来空纪念价值的东西。
青春痕迹：一堆CD （无悔啊~）+ 书 （励志书、小说、漫画、文学，真的曾经好爱书到吓人的地步） + 邮票 + etc.....
下场：每晚都腰酸背痛... 我的腰要静养了啦~

遇蛇记

昨晚只有我和很难得在家的妹妹两个人，她在楼下我在楼上网。突然间她就惊天动地尖叫一声！*通常这情况只有我姐遇见壁虎的时候才会尖叫*

原来是家里进了一只蛇！
据说：妹妹原本想走后门到隔壁阿嫲家找一些甜点，殊不知走进厨房的时候，就迎面来一只蛇跟她say hi~

我到她旁边的时候，看到那条蛇，也立刻跳到椅子上~~
接着我在椅子上盯着那条蛇，然后我让妹妹到前门去住隔壁的舅舅过来救命！！

舅舅和阿姨过来后，蛇跑到冰箱底下... 阿姨和舅舅动用麻袋、洗衣篮、棍子... 才成功把蛇弄进麻袋... 原本舅舅想直接用高尔夫球杆直接打死那条蛇，可是阿姨说不要在屋子里杀蛇...所以就把麻袋放在屋子外面的塑料桶里，等明天再把它载到远处的小山坡去丢...

真的感谢舅舅阿姨的及时救命啊，要不然如果只有我和妹妹的话，真的懂该怎么办~~

出借幾米

新學年新氣象，今年姐姐升級做級任老師。
話説今年每天都會有閲讀課外讀物時間，而盡責的級任老師就想說“出借”一些讀物放在班上，讓沒帶書的學生可以閲讀。
據她說學生們反映：看不懂劉墉大師所表達，而且也看不懂繁體字...

姐姐思考后的結論是：讓學生由簡單的圖畫故事書開始看，讓他們培養閲讀習慣...

而這... 除了她自己自臺灣帶回來的一堆繁體字故事書之外，想要“出借”的書，概念動到我的珍藏幾米！！！

雖然說我的寶貝們與其呆在書櫥裏擺美，的確借給莘莘學子們培養閲讀興趣讓它們有更大的發揮；可是... 沒閲讀習慣的小孩子，會懂得珍惜書本嗎？ 我唯一的擔心是一年后我的寶貝們會從珍藏本變成傷痕累累的爛書啊... T.T

經過一番討價還價后... 這五本文字相對簡單的寶貝就此出勤了....*憂心*

寶貝們，一年后（如果你們熬得過）請平安歸來啊... *祈禱*

CHONGKOK KOPITIAM on air

As some regular customer of  CHONGKOK KOPITIAM that has Astro AEC at home MIGHT noticed these few days... Yes, our taukeh is ON AIR during the 30 sec advert for the upcoming episode of  阿贤贪吃路线 @ Axian's Food Adventures!!! (You may click on the link to go to the programme's facebook page video)


It's been months since the shooting took place... Finally out wait has arrived!!

Stay tune for Astro AEC 301 this Sunday 7/11 @ 9pm to look out for the nasi lemak & Hailam coffee of Chongkok Kopitiam!! CHEERS!!

想念

告诉某人 Я скучаю по тебе （俄文：想念你）
他回复：скучаю по тебе тоже （俄文：我也想你）

纵使只是客套，看了仍是窝心。
*由此可见我也是会有选择傻气的时候*

纾压

一个星期就这么过去了，回到家，喝下热热的汤的那一刻真幸福！

今天对于雪州和霹州的人，都是悠长假期。我稍感叹：哎，为什么我在KL呢？都没假期…

结果就得到答案：这样也好，要不然放那么多假，我们不就很少学习时间？

囧… 那我知道的啊，只是心态上还是很羡慕假期而已啊…

哎，看来我技不如人、只是不如人之外，连心态都不如人那么积极…

今天跟朋友们吃饭，为一个朋友饯别。

见到面都问：新地方怎样？新生活还好吗？

老实说，这种问题是有够… 新地方能怎样？又不是没有孤身在外生活过，毕竟不是家里，过得去就好。至于医院呢？我们是去那边待考，每天都是超紧张的生活，请问心情会好吗？

在我离开医院范围后，非医学相关人士，可以不要跟我聊考试、医学、医院这话题吗？真的越来越懒惰交际了...

这种时候很感恩有那些见到面只管一起放松开心的朋友。

我是一个偶尔有控制欲的人，我喜欢appointment。

我不喜欢surprise，尤其在繁忙的时段，还有我的生日的时候。

我的生日不难记，所以有心的朋友，不可能会错过，加上现在有facebook这些网页时时刻刻在提醒着。

有心跟我庆祝的朋友，要提早/延迟庆祝，我绝对不会介意。前提是你提前约我时间，那会给我一个欢乐的期待。

其实如果是不熟的朋友，你有没有帮我庆祝我完全不在意，可能你只是到时候facebook spam我的墙，我也觉得ok的。

可是当同一班人，为一个早我两个星期生日的人花那么多心思庆祝，坦白说我不可能不介意我的生日无声无息。距离还剩那么几天的时间，我仍没有听到任何一句来自同一班人询问我何时得空。此时此刻我的心情推断只有以下几种：

• 同一班人要给我surprise，那样的话我只能说你们很不了解我... 因为surprise对于我来说不但没有期待，而且如果刚好是在我很忙的时候来，那只会造成困扰。除非你们觉得我的时间真的是廉价到随传随到。
• 根本忘了我的生日… 整个月份下来整班人只想到即将饯别（刚好就早我两星期生日）的朋友的生日。那估计只会到了facebook当天显示后才会急急忙忙要找我庆祝？
• 将我的生日记成九月了…

从以上几点有些明显我有些开始不爽了... hmm... 所以未来看看后续怎么样好了...

 

*此刻在此感恩有已经提前预约和告知我何时要见面庆祝的老朋友们，你们是最棒的！*

生日礼物参考列表

本小姐的生日就快到啦~ 首先祝我自己生日快乐！ 当然我不会追生日礼物，不过老朋友们（该指名道姓地tag你们吗？哈哈）如果真有考虑要送礼却不知道要送什么，以下是参考范围（我真的想要的）：

• Mitch Albom 《Have A Little Faith》

         

• Randy Pausch 《The Last Lecture》

      

• 神木与瞳《守护者》 

      

• Olivia Ong的专辑 
• 新眼镜（不过这估计就是自己买）
• Nicholas Sparks 《The Last Song》 
• 蔡康永 《说话之道》
• 高木直子《第一次一个人旅行》《一个人旅行2》《一个人漂泊的日子》《一个人住第9年》

当然仔细看，很明显我要的大多是小说或音乐专辑。

如果想送却不想送以上的，有本事的话建议您直接送现金好了 LOL

担心已经是我列出来的，所以没惊喜没创意了？别担心，我更担心会有“惊喜”。

当然，如果已考虑清楚要送那一本书/专辑的话，不妨留言表明你想送哪一样了，以免我收到两份同样的 *真有那么多人会送吗？哈哈*

Translation:

My birthday is near~ Yeah yeah I know where got people remind like that one? I'm not forcing or expecting any presents, just that old friends (which I wonder should I tag you peeps out LOL), or anyone that MAYBE wanna gimme gifts but don't know what to buy, here's a reference list:(above)

Obviously most in the lists are books, which I'll be more than happy to have it.

Don't worry about not having surprise anymore since I've listed it out, I'll worry more about "surprises“ LOL

If you wanna give a special gift but don't want anything listed above, my advise: I'll be more than happy to have CASH *grin*

Of course, IF you've decided to get something according to the list, please leave a comment so that I won't get same books X2, k? Hahaha…

好想叛逆

中學的我「幾乎」沒有叛逆期。說“幾乎”是因為我唯一小小的叛逆就是週六偶爾會翹個社團活動跟朋友去逛街、到租書店消遣而已。

上學院開始的小小“叛逆”就是放學后跟同學逛街、看電影。

上大學后才開始有翹課的叛逆...囧

回顧整個成長過程，感覺真的有點倒退成長，怎麼年紀越大才越來越想放縱？不想照著社會的遊戲和正常思想走…

小時候，不喜歡就不理睬，更甚用言語直接表示別來煩我。現在，不喜歡頂多只能寡言，那是待人禮儀的最大讓步。縱使心裡只想繼續活在自己溫暖的朋友小圈圈，但人生卻告訴你必須認識新的人，擴展自己的胸懷和度量。

不喜歡每認識新的人，就要重新自我介紹。老實說，大部份陌生人真的don't give a shit 你的職業啦，他們需要知道的就只是你的一個社會“身份”來將你定位。在社會的identity上模擬兩可的現在，更是討厭這種狀況。聽到無謂的問題的時候，心裡想：關你屁事；嘴裡却要笑笑應酬...

當你年紀越長，需開始負的責任越大，身邊的人也隨著要求越多。要學著成長，要學著社會的遊戲順從，要學著不任性，要學著虛偽，要學著不得不善良。

虛偽，虛偽... 真的虛偽到連打一篇文章都開始三思。

angry drivers

Some people have very good behaviour on daily basis but once they sit behind the wheel, they get stressed & upset very easily. At the very moment of time, it's all about your driving-anger management.

Some people, when stressed the tend to go fast, and break abruptly when needed.

Sometimes they got so stressed and upset they just want to go their way & they kinda forget about traffic rules.

If you see a reckless driver, even though you're upset inside, please don't show it outside through the way you drive. BEHAVE on the road.

I don't like to sit in the car of an angry driver. I feel tension & worried.

When you show your stress through your driving, you not only stressed up yourself, you're stressing your passengers & other drivers on the road as well.

We can't expect to change everyone, why not we change ourselves instead?

出走

就像个闹别扭的大孩子

“在这个家我不快乐”，所以就默默地打包行李，然后默默地翘家。

走了，不知道什么时候心情好的时候再回来。

放心，不是我。

Ｂ型

姐姐在发火地整理着屋子的时候，看到一本捐血本。＊ａｈｅｍ，就是在下的本本＊

看到我的血型是Ｂ型的时候，很不屑地说：哼，竟然还是Ｂ型的？

我：Ｂ型的又怎么了？

姐：Ｂ型的不是应该很守规矩的吗？不是应该很规则的吗？

．．．所以我说我不喜欢以星座、血型来分人的个性，因为一点也不准，而且还要被冠上莫名的评语。╮（╯▽╰）╭