看来我有做老师的潜质...

没想到今时今日还得重新“教育”某人何谓“基本尊重”。
某人身为一个大学生，思想行为却像中小学生。
跟她吃饭，她的话题真的让人无言...
说起上个星期跟她剪头发，结果她自己last minute又另外约了两三个人，事前完全没知会我一声

，另出门前突然才发觉好多人，然后我不爽的事情。
已经过了一个星期，我也跟她解释过一次了，可是她很显然还不明白自己错在哪里。她一直认为她没告诉我是因为其他学妹们还没决定要不要一起去，所以是因为其他学妹迟迟不答复的缘故。
结果再次跟她解释了一边何谓“基本尊重”。
或说我那天出门时是超不爽，因为我也不知道她们是不是要染，那么迟出门，一个一个等，要到几点啊？不过后来她们都只是剪头发而已，而且学妹们人都很nice，所以我也没生气很久，毕竟也不是她们的错，全都只是某人的问题。
我就告诉她啊，你约了我的话，你如果另外要约其他人，不论她们决定了没有，你事前是不是至少可以问我一下我介不介意大家一起去？

而且这不是第一次，以前也有发生过这样，当时她也是突然约了另一个大家都不是很喜欢的学姐C。然后剪好了头发后，离开了那熟人朋友的理发店，那学姐还一直批评说我朋友的店不好。*TMD*
据某学姐W说以前她们一起去唱歌，某人也是突然约了学姐C一起去，without notifying学姐W她们，虽然那一次学姐C后来放了某人飞机，不过已经造成学姐W的不爽。

今天我就一次过把话说白了。事情一次也就算了，每一次都这样。大学生了，待人处事不是这样的，对人一点都不尊重。

结果我说完后某人无言了...静静的，吃饱之余也没心情硬吃光所有食物了。
我就转移话题，然后就买单回来了。

*突然觉得我非常有做老师的潜质...*

Selamat Hari Raya

In conjunction with Eid Fitr (Hari Raya), the newly elected Deputy Consul General of Malaysia, En Sohaimi Ahmad invited some 20 students to their "Open House" today.

Puan Zurina & Kak Kathy had prepared lots of home-made Malay food such as laksa, nasi bryani, roasted whole lamb, ketupat, satay sauce, archa, rendang, curry chicken, vege curry… They even served air sirap~ yum~

Met some familiar faces such as Mr Lim (head of MAPROC), Kak Kathy, and some familiar faces which whom i regretly can't recall their names, and some unfamiliar faces. Anyhow it's realy a pleasant afternoon.

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri kepada semua & salam sejahtera!

周杰倫 - 稻香

 

對這個世界如果你有太多的抱怨
跌倒了就不敢繼續往前走
為什麼人要這麼的脆弱　墮落
請你打開電視看看
多少人為生命在努力勇敢的走下去
我們是不是該知足
珍惜一切 就算沒有擁有
還記得你說家是唯一的城堡
隨著稻香河流繼續奔跑
微微笑　小時候的夢我知道
不要哭讓螢火蟲帶著你逃跑
鄉間的歌謠永遠的依靠
回家吧　回到最初的美好
...
... ...
不要這麼容易就想放棄　就像我說的
追不到的夢想　換個夢不就得了
為自己的人生鮮艷上色
先把愛塗上喜歡的顏色
笑一個吧　功成名就不是目的
讓自己快樂快樂這才叫做意義
童年的紙飛機　現在終於飛回我手裡
所謂的那快樂　赤腳在田裡追蜻蜓追到累了
偷摘水果被蜜蜂給叮到怕了　誰在偷笑呢
我靠著稻草人吹著風唱著歌睡著了
哦　哦　午後吉它在蟲鳴中更清脆
哦　哦　陽光灑在路上就不怕心碎
珍惜一切　就算沒有擁有
還記得你說家是唯一的城堡
隨著稻香河流繼續奔跑
微微笑　小時候的夢我知道
不要哭讓螢火蟲帶著你逃跑
鄉間的歌謠永遠的依靠
回家吧　回到最初的美好
還記得你說家是唯一的城堡
隨著稻香河流繼續奔跑
微微笑　小時候的夢我知道
不要哭讓螢火蟲帶著你逃跑
鄉間的歌謠永遠的依靠
回家吧　回到最初的美好

让人很怀念小时候那奔跑在草地上，夜里拿着电筒陪着姨丈抓田鸡，一大清早全家人一起到河边钓鱼的童年… 现在已回不到从前的那种时光，只能继续努力在前方寻找快乐…

藤木一惠-Sunny Day

《死神的精度》女主角小西真奈美以戏中角色“藤木一惠”的名义演唱其电影主题曲「Sunny Day」。

日文和罗马拼音 【中文译词 】

こぼれ落(お)ちたのは
koboreochitanoha 【缓缓滑落脸颊】
涙(なみだ)じゃなく祈(いの)る声(こえ)
namidajanakuinorukoe 【代替泪水，逝去了心声 】
见上(みあ)げていたのは
miageteitanoha 【极力仰望】
云(くも)の上(うえ)の太阳(たいよう)
kumonouenotaiyou 【逾越阴云感受阳光 】
眠(ねむ)るように生(い)きていた
nemuruyouniikiteita 【混沌度日】
いつも孤独(こどく)だった
itsumokodokudatta 【只有孤单随行】
君(きみ)に出会(であ)うその日(ひ)までは
kiminideausonohimadeha 【期待与你的邂逅】
ずっとずっとここで
zuttozuttokokode 【一直在原地静静期待 】
ひとりでも歌(うた)える
hitoridemoutaeru 【独自一人也能歌唱情歌 】
爱(あい)の歌(うた)があるとしても
ainoutagaarutoshitemo 【即便如此】
ひとりでは探(さが)せない
hitoridehasagasenai
両手(りょうて)に触(ふ)れたこの温(ぬく)もり
ryoutenifuretakononukumori 【孤单一人无法追寻捧在掌心的温暖】
仮面(かめん)を缠(まと)えば
kamenomatoeba 【附上假面 】
忘(わす)れられる気(き)がしてた
wasurerarerukigashiteta 【隐约坚信能够忘却】
记忆(きおく)をしまった
kiokuoshimatta 【尘封记忆】
箱(はこ)に键(かぎ)をかけて
hakonikagiokakete 【封闭心锁 】
あんな暗(くら)い场所(ばしょ)でさえ

annakuraibashodesae 【只有在黑暗中】
君(きみ)を见(み)つけ出(だ)せた
kimiomitsukedaseta 【才能用身心与你相依】
戻(もど)ることができなくても
modorukotogadekinakutemo 【我紧紧追随永不回头】
もっともっと远(とお)く
mottomottotooku 【你却依然渐渐远去 】
ひとりきり覚(おぼ)えた
hitorikirioboeta 【只在自己脑海中回响的情歌】
ひとりでは届(とど)かない
hitoridehatodokanai 【永远无法让你闻知 】
ドアの向(む)こうで待(ま)つ明日(あした)へ
doanomukoudematsuashitahe【 向往在门口守候我的未来】

ここからもう一度(いちど)歩(ある)き出(だ)す
kokokaramouichidoarukidasu 【只须再次迈开脚步 】
withyou...
悲(かな)しみを优(やさ)しさに
kanashimioyasashisani 【你能将忧伤化为柔情 】
変(か)えてみせるから
kaetemiserukara 【只因你能向我证明 】
いつかは必(かなら)ず
itsukahakanarazu 【能够原谅真实的自我 】
本当(ほんとう)の自分(じぶん)を许(ゆる)せたら
hontounojibunoyurusetara【伤痛也定会随之离去 】
痛(いた)みも消(き)えてく
itamimokieteku
きっと
kitto
爱(あい)の歌(うた)はもういらない
ainoutahamouiranai 【孤单一人的情歌 我不再需要】
阳(ひ)だまりのようなこの温(ぬく)もり
hidamarinoyounakononukumori 【一己之力找不到冬日阳光的温暖 】
君(きみ)となら探(さが)せる
kimitonarasagaseru 【要你一起，定能找到】
见(み)たことのない明日(あした)を
mitakotononaiashitao 【从未感知的未来 】

Kungfu Panda

这原本想去电影院看的电影，再拖了整个月后结果还是自己在房间看了。

一开头他发梦的情况还真的让我发笑了一下下，一个成天发功夫梦的面馆胖熊猫。可是当它老爸出现的那一刻，我真的鹤子？？而熊猫Po竟然多年深信不疑自己是鹤子的儿子？就这么一点就足以让我从头到尾心里有那么一点郁闷的感觉。

另外在命名方面：有够懒！那一些Monkey,Crane,Tiger的也就算了，毕竟它们就是照着动物本身的名字。可是Master Wugui, Master Shifu... 不懂华文的mat saleh估计会以为『乌龟』、『师父』是特别取的名字呗...既然那么懒得取名，为什么不直接Master Turtle好了？是因为想要特别点要来个“中国风”吗？为什么只有熊猫自己有一个特别的名字Po？难不成是『宝』的意思？不过说到底，师父本身是个什么动物啊？

那龟仙到最后死掉，随着升天的画面，让我不禁想起类似的电影画面：Little Bear那些祖先升天，Atlantis里那一些先王们随着蓝水晶的光环升天，Princess of the Sun里那些埃及先王在金字塔里慢慢升天消失，Spiderwick Chronicles里的Arthur Spiderwick慢慢被着Sprites们围绕-分解-随风飘走... 这些樱花、光环的如果真有那么神奇的力量恐怕就没人敢在赏樱了吧？*我知道，这只是卡通，别想得那么复杂*

不过那个dragon scroll的宗旨是还不错啦。dragon warrior的最大能量就是相信自己，那就无所不能。

可是看完后查一查官网，才发觉wow...原来此动画的配音人员们都那么大咖哦～Jack Black / Jackie Chan / Lucy Liu / Angelina Jolie / Dustin Hoffman / Dan Fogler / Ian McShane失敬失敬...

Overall，这是很轻松的一部喜剧卡通啦... 尽管细节不令人全盘接受。

官方网站: http://www.kungfupanda.com/

Guess the Sketch

最近买的一个小冰棒手机链，可愛いでしょ？我觉得好可爱的，一眼就爱上它...而且当有电话/sms in-out的时候白白的雪糕地带还有LED亮灯哦~ (竟然有人问我那黄色的是什么东西...-_-")

这几天迷上了facebook里的一个application game——Guess the Sketch Challenge~! 人家画图你猜字，跟时间竞争，跟一堆人斗看谁猜得快。很刺激，很上瘾！不过有时候看到那些缺乏美术细胞的人画出来的东西（鬼画符）真令人想不通，例如狗画得像马的。更有些没有游戏道德的人破坏规矩直接把vocab答案写上去，可恶...

有时候呢，那些猜起来相近，却又差那么一点的词汇让你呕血...eg. educate /education; investigate/ investigator / investigation.

又或者那一些同义词或意义相近的，他们画的图画就是对的，偏偏你就是aim不着那个正确的字，eg. student/ pupil

又或者模拟两课的情景，例如人家画一个拿枪的人，答案可能是policeman / police/ soldier/ robber/ killer/ hurt/ shoot/ hostage... 又例如画了一个火，可能是fire/ flame/ fuse/ hot/ burn...这种时候真的是考你的词汇.

我自认我画得基本上都还很多人猜得出来啦，可是真的不得不承认我的vocab程度逐渐下滑中。就像今天轮到我画的时候，得到的字是“convex”。由于我不清楚是什么意思，只好放弃。

后来查了一下字典 convex adj. Having a surface or boundary that curves or bulges outward, as the exterior of a sphere.

每日一词汇，我今天又学到了。

Blogthings.5

You Are Occasionally a Narcissist

While you have healthy self esteem, you're really not that full of yourself. Compared to most people, you're quite humble! Though occasionally, you can't help and reflect on how great you are. There's nothing wrong with being proud of yourself - as long as you don't let it go to your head!

Are You a Narcissist?

Your Gemstone Says...

You are stable, strong, and full of life. You are an inspiring person. People turn to you first for leadership and advice. You are able to gently help people get to where they need to be. And while you aren't afraid to lead when necessary, you are never heartless or bossy.

The Gemstone Test

What Your Soul Really Looks Like

You are a warm hearted and open minded person. It's easy for you to forgive and forget. You are a grounded person, but you also leave room for imagination and dreams. You feet may be on the ground, but you're head is in the clouds. You see yourself with pretty objective eyes. How you view yourself is almost exactly how other people view you. Your near future is a lot like the present, and as far as you're concerned, that's a very good thing. For you, love is all about caring and comfort. You couldn't fall in love with someone you didn't trust.

Inside the Room of Your Soul

You are 53% Virgo

How Virgo Are You?

说到底我本来不就是处女座的吗？这么说是不是代表我“不症状”典型？

You Are 74% Thankful

You are a very thankful person - for both the big and little things in life. Your optimism is powerful. Getting through hard times is fairly easy for you.

How Thankful Are You?

这个我非常赞同啦，人要知足嘛～

What Your Taste in Chocolate Says About You

You are sweet, mellow, and easily satisfied. You don't like anything too intense and dramatic. Deep down, you're a kid at heart... and you're nostalgic for the past. You are full of life and vigor. You have an amazing amount energy, and you keep very active. Some people feel like you can't focus on them. You do tend to be restless You love being around people. Friendships are important to you. You feel lost when you're by yourself... so you tend to avoid being alone.

The Chocolate Oracle

You Will Be a Cool Parent

You seem to naturally know a lot about parenting, and you know what kids need. You can tell when it's time to let kids off the hook, and when it's time to lay down the law. While your parenting is modern and hip, it's not over the top. You know that there's nothing cool about a parent who acts like a teenager... or a drill sergeant!

Would You Be a Cool Parent?

You Are Black Pepper

You may be considered ordinary by some, but you're far from boring. You elevate the mood of any discussion, and people miss you when you're not around. You are secretly very dominant and powerful. Most can only take you in small doses.

What Spice Are You?

曾经看过一部印度-美国片『Mistress os Spices』，里面的女主角说每一个人都有属于自己的一个香料。我从那时就想：那属于我的香料会是什么？没想到竟然是黑胡椒？？也算啦，我也挺喜欢黑胡椒的... 没了它的调味很多食物都不够香啊～

Your Dream Engagement Ring Has an Oval Diamond!

An oval diamond is classic enough to reflect your femininity... While being unique enough to show off that individual style you've cultivated Your creative side will be delighted with the amount of twinkle your diamond showcases And your ring's unique design will go well with all that artistic jewelry you've collected!

What's Your Dream Engagement Ring?

Your Personality Is

Rational (NT) You are both logical and creative. You are full of ideas. You are so rational that you analyze everything. This drives people a little crazy! Intelligence is important to you. You always like to be around smart people. In fact, you're often a little short with people who don't impress you mentally. You seem distant to some - but it's usually because you're deep in thought. Those who understand you best are fellow Rationals. In love, you tend to approach things with logic. You seek a compatible mate - who is also very intelligent. At work, you tend to gravitate toward idea building careers - like programming, medicine, or academia. With others, you are very honest and direct. People often can't take your criticism well. As far as your looks go, you're coasting on what you were born with. You think fashion is silly. On weekends, you spend most of your time thinking, experimenting with new ideas, or learning new things.

The Three Question Personality Test

11 Rules of the Real World by Bill Gates

Bill Gates recently gave a speech at a High School about 11 things they did not and will not learn in school.

He talks about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality
and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world.

*_11 Rules of the Real World _*
Rule 1: Life is not fair - get used to it!

Rule 2 : The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

Rule 3 : You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.

Rule 4 : If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.

Rule 5 : Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity.

Rule 6 : If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them.

Rule 7 : Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.

Rule 8 : Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.

Rule 9 : Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time.

Rule 10 : Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.

Rule 11 : Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one.

元若蓝-半情歌

词：陈静楠 曲：方文良

花 接受凋零
风 接受追寻
心的伤还有一些不要紧
我接受你的决定
你将会被谁抱紧
唱什么歌哄他开心
我想着天空 什么时候会放晴
地球不曾为谁停一停
你的明天 有多快乐 不是我的
我们的爱是唱一半的歌
时间把习惯换了 伤口愈合
也撤销我再想你的资格
你的祝福 一半甜的 一半苦的
像我手中冷掉的可可
最最教人残念的 总是未完成的
我只能唱着 一半的歌

你将会被谁抱紧
唱什么歌哄他开心
我想着天空 什么时候会放晴
地球不曾为谁停一停
你的明天 有多快乐 不是我的
我们的爱是唱一半的歌
时间把习惯换了 伤口愈合
也撤销我再想你的资格
你的祝福 一半甜的 一半苦的
像我手中冷掉的可可
最最教人残念的 总是未完成的
我只能唱着 一半的歌

我的明天 快不快乐 都是我的
我们的爱是唱一半的歌
时间把习惯换了 伤口愈合
也撤销我再想你的资格
你的祝福 一半甜的 一半苦的
像我手中冷掉的可可
最最教人残念的 总是未完成的
另一半的歌

这是近期最hit台湾偶像剧『命中注定我爱你』的插曲...有些感伤，却又已看淡、豁达了的情感。

[日剧]ホタルノヒカリ

自从在百度上搜寻『干物女』结果提起过有那么一部漫画改编的日剧后就想看看，可是就一直提不起劲去寻找。后来在美琪的博客上看见说她看了那么一部『鱼干女又怎样』，再次挑起我的注意了，这才知道这电视剧就是我很久之前就曾想看的『萤之光』（跟原著漫画同名）。

主演: 綾瀬はるか / 藤木直人 / 加藤和樹

官方网站: http://www.ntv.co.jp/himono/

　　职场白领雨宫萤（绫濑はるか饰）其实是个不折不扣的宅女！年纪轻轻，闲暇时却只喜欢“悠闲地”窝在家里，吃吃喝喝睡睡觉，不外出，无交际，不谈恋爱。和工作中光彩夺目的形象相比，落差何止千万！
　　某日，家中迎来了公司里的上司：高野部长（藤木直人饰），原来高野是这幢房子的真正主人，最近他因和妻子离婚而搬回来住。最初，高野对宅中人小萤的“真面目”惊恐万分，随即觉得可以“不将其视作女人”而开始生活在同一屋檐下。
　　不料，部长渐渐发现自己对迷糊邋遢的小萤产生好感，后知后觉的小萤不仅没有意识到，还对部长尽情倾吐自己的暗恋心事……可待到她与梦中人手嶋誠（加藤和树饰）真的谈起恋爱，却又发现对方似乎不是合适的人选...

这日剧，怎么说呢...其实是以轻松喜剧为主，而且这超级无敌懒的小莹几乎每一集里都有不同的古怪动作，管高野部长称她——乌龟女、蛇女、鱼干女、轮胎女、无面女... 一直活在自己的小世界里，结果当帅哥手嶋进入她的世界后，她反倒不习惯两人的相处，也不知道如何坦诚真实的自己，难以启齿，深怕自己的生活习惯会让对方却步。

缺乏安全感、嫉妒、猜疑虽然是恋爱症候群的通病，可是无法让对方看见自己最真的一面，无法让对方真心、全然包容的恋情能长久吗？

虽然小莹那样过得那么悠闲、自我、散漫、邋遢，那么地宅，真的有些令人羡慕，可同身为女性看了也觉得有些发指。我承认我肤浅，可是我毕竟也不过是凡夫俗子，重视视觉感官的人类啊。不过...仔细一想，糟糕～～ 感觉自己也好不了她多少，而至少人家还是身材纤细的美女～ 啊，惨了，看来我还不用出社会已经沦落为干物一族了？唉...看来我也得反省自己的行径，不能让自己那么地沉沦了。