感谢

如果爱情事业两得意是完美，那当缺一的时候，是什么？

人生快到三十的时候还事业无成，是失败吗？

感谢你让我学业事业无成就的时候，仍感到幸福。

感谢你让我不是一败涂地。

Guys, be a man!

Watched this movie, Something Borrowed couple of days ago:

• Well, Dex and Rachel were study mates in law school and obviously they're fond of each other.
• Somehow down the road came Rachel's happy-go-lucky best friend, Darcy who takes everything easily.
• Due to some misinterpretation, Dex ended up with Darcy and yeah, they're about to get married... and THEN only Dex and Rachel found out that they loved each other all along! 
• =.= Stupid but yeah, that's what norms do due to: shyness, misinterpretation, ego, want-face, blah... 
• So they confessed and had a short affair where Dex, being the guy living to satisfy expectations instead of what he wants (well, just like most of us) don't dare to call off the wedding... Until Rachel decides to give up on him and move on with her life.
• Thank God in the end Dex kinda realized he's gonna missed the love of his life & found his guts to cancel the wedding & be with Rachel.

The whole point here... Is about what guys does.

Just like other  buddy-friend-couple scenario you'll see in young romance movie, the boy is a ladies-man, he's caring, he's gentleman, he's a girl's listener, blah blah... and so a girl fell for him. She confessed, he rejected for who-knows-what reason. Since they're friends, of course they still hang out once in a while. Apparently every time when the girl decides to move on, the boy always gives hope. Once he was drunk and told her, " I shouldn't have rejected you.." and then when he's back in consciousness the second day, it's back to normal and nothing happens... *I feel like fly-kick somebody*

Guys, why can't you just make things simple and clear and let us girls move on with our lives? Is it that hard just to give a confirmed answer and settle the issue? *roll eye* I wonder sometimes how does guys' brain function. Don't complicate it. If you don't like the girl, just tell her! Don't give hope, can?

Thank God she's smart enough to move on without him.

Picture from http://superpaula.tumblr.com

Just like I what I tell my girlfriends, if the guy is such a kiddo that can't give a clear-cut answer, you might as well give up and stop wasting time on him. Who knows he does that with other girls too?

I have a friend whom just met a very charming and cute guy, he told her he likes her, they went out for a sweet night. So what's next? The girl's not sure whether the guy is planning to have further move or just friends. I said just ask and get on. Don't be afraid of scaring the guy off. If he's really such a good guy, he won't be intimidated & he'll talk it out with you. *Heck, don't forget he's the one who asked you out in the first place, k?* 

Btw, guys, girls confess because you're charming, ok? So please stop playing hide-and-seek and say "I don't know"!!! Urgh...




Of course, every one loves to just sit back and relax and best of all, no need to make choices! But that's not the way of life! You won't have your mama to decide everything for you throughout your life! Grow Up!


I once heard, "Guys are MALE by nature, MAN by CHOICE!". So if you wanna be a man, start taking up some responsibility!

Good luck to you girls...

北海道蛋糕

其實以前光顧這RT Pastry烘焙店的時候就有注意過這麼一個小海報，貌似很多人排隊買的一個蛋糕。
可是對我而言，蛋糕就是蛋糕，而且在這麼擁擠的店鋪里，我通常快快買了要吃的麵包就走了。

一直到昨天看到Life Is Good 提到這個讓他覺得相逢恨晚的蛋糕，今天就決定去買一盒。
據說是需要預訂，可是今天我到的時候，詢問一下，結果店員說可以讓一盒給我，真的太幸運啦~

男朋友原本很好奇我爲什麽突然想買這北海道蛋糕，結果當他吃下第一口，就大贊好吃！
鬆軟的蛋糕中有香滑的fresh cream~ 他說：就像cream puff那樣，可是是蛋糕，很香！

後來我看見“需要冷藏”的表示就放了冰箱... 兩者對比之下，我個人覺得還是室溫的香滑奶油比較誘人 :)
不過一點是肯定的：的確有相逢恨晚的feel...

birthday pressie #2

我一向都很喜欢手工笔记本，不过通常这些手工品都不便宜。
今天在教会看到这一款手工书，封面画上劳牧师的小小油画作品，很喜欢。不过由于这些对于我是收藏品所以没买。
结果才过一下子，我就收到我迟来的礼物——一本手工笔记本！ 真的太感谢了！


Got this nice thread sew bind notebook, with Ps Kevin Loo's painting in front as bday pressie!! Luvly. Thanks E1 ~

品冠——为你我想做更好的人

貌似好一阵子没注意到品冠的新歌。
虽然有为了品冠稍微看了一两集的《姐妹》电视剧，不过没待到片尾曲。
今天在fb看到品冠官网放上这一首歌，才去听...

仍然是一贯品冠风—— 深情、浪漫...
为你我想做更好的人，这，是他为女友唱的歌曲吗？XD
不过我觉得这首歌真的很有成为往后男生求婚曲的potential~ 哈哈！

在此分享，希望大家都能遇见那么一个想为他/她变得更好的人...

Daiyanti & Tony's wedding

This is the second wedding I've attended within a month. 

Having to know her for more than 8 years now, and she's getting marry.

It's kinda private wedding reception where most of the guests are family members.

A white-lavender themed poolside wedding. Nice.

Even the drink is purple in colour! 

Kinda got a shock when I saw the purple. Cos obviously this ain't Ribena-purple..

Still it's quite nice, kinda sweet rose-syrup + Ribena-like taste... :)

May both of you be blessed & happy in your marriage.

Photo courtesy of Sabbitan Balakrishnan

They danced after all the song performances by family members & relative.

Too bad I left before the dance. What a beautiful scene.

沉沦

第三个星期了... 随着时间一点一点流逝，有的只有更多的气馁和无奈；毫无奋斗意识。
我跟朋友们说：如果考不过，估计明年你们就收我的红贴吧？
可是如果事实如此，我未来会否甘心，我也不知道啊...

算了，坚强点渡过眼前这关吧...

PIG RABBIT

前幾個月看了韓劇《原來是美男啊》之後，覺得裏面的兔子豬 （돼지 토끼）很是可愛，而由於這韓劇的關係，大馬也有精品店引進這一款娃娃售賣。

想當然，這種日劇韓劇出來的周邊產品自然不會便宜，所以除了感歎它很可愛之外，也不會動腦筋想要買...
不過基於某些原因，男朋友有辦法（比較）“便宜” 買到一隻，所以就買來送我了！oh yeah...

之前男友有象徵性買一個兔子豬的鑰匙圈給我，我以為就告一段落了。沒想到還有額外收穫~ happy \(^0^)/

附上《美男》的主題曲——Jang Geun Suk的  말도 없이 Without Words

good morning

Having to wake up so early to follow, listen & observe the ward rounds. (I mean to be there BY 7.30am)

*yawn* Miss my bed.

Back to camp

Back to 'camp' again today.. 
This time round, there's quite some old faces, and some of the new faces were uni-mates..
Already knew half the people here from the first day. >.< Not a good thing.

Can see some obvious changes in some friends, in a relationship.
First indication, the taste of wardrobe become A LOT BETTER.
Second & most important, she'll smile sweetly while reading her sms over lunch.

Though there's a lot of acquaintance this year round, still kinda miss my old group mates, which most of them didn't come this year round.
One went for internship in India.
One decided to postpone this attempt.

Two decided to study on their own & just sit for the exam.
And another one missing in action. *which is the bubbly one that made us felt something in the air is missing as he's not around.*

This time looks worse than last year, the course will end on 7/10 (Fri), then the exam will be starting on 10/10 (Mon). No study break. How cool is that. *roll eye*

Feet aching from the new (but cheap) shoes after standing & walking for a day. Bumps coming out.